Well I started a blog to have discussions about things going on around us, or in our own lives, or in a personal way.This subject effects us all doesn't it?
Define it for me? Why are people two faced? Well its when someone talks about someone else when the person they are talking about is not around. Usually defined in NOT A GOOD WAY. Nope someones talking shit behind someones back! The second part of this definition, after someone has talked smack, you end up seeing them hanging around the person they were just talking smack about... and FUCK ME RUNNING THEY ARE BEING NICE TO THAT PERSON NOW!
You find yourself standing there looking at them both.....your eyes doing the tennis court shuffle back n forth. The person who was talking shit now standing there just smiling back at you... the other greets you and says hello. It can make for an uncomfortable environment to say the least. Especially if you are friends with both of them. So what do you do if your in this situation?
I don't do a Damn thing right away. I evaluate the situation first. Also depends wtf was said to. Was it said out of anger? Was it said just to be mean? Was it said to make their own life look better by making someone elses look like crap! I don't know, a lot of factors come into play doesn't it?
Well what happens when your the person being spoken about? I am sure it has happened somewhere down the line. A friend is sitting there with you, and all of a sudden they mention how someone you know, was cutting you down to them. First initial response, shock isn't it? Especially when you thought this person would never say anything bad about you. Or worse, they haven't been in your life for ten plus years or more to make a comment that even refers to you! Or worse yet you could be married to the person who's talking shit about you! Either way I find its BULLSHIT! Then how do you expect the person who has just heard a bunch of crap , sit there, and NOT start insulting about the person who just did it!
Two wrongs don't make a right? Maybe true, but isn't how it goes is it?
The way I see it, everyone should be accountable for wtf they are saying to other people! If you are the person talking shit about someone, you better get your battle gear out! Nobody in their right mind is going to sit there and take it like a bitch! Or you have just created another TWO FACED person, who isn't the confrontational type to get in your face and tell you what they really think!
Why do people feel the need to be this way anyway? Didn't you ever hear the phrase, "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all!". Sounds to me if you have, then somebody was trying to teach you something. Maybe its time we listen.
The ones that really grind me, are the ones who haven't been in your life for YEARS, who sit there and spout their mouth off, and the truth is, THEIR OWN LIFE SUCKS! In fact I have found the people in this category lead or have lead a pretty sad existence! To ashamed to admit it to anyone! They sit there and tell the world how wonderful their life is and no matter what you do yours will never compares to this blissful life they lead! Don't let that shit fool ya! Its a JOKE! Anyone who claims a life like that is full of it! And honestly if you watch and listen you'll find out its true.
So best advise I can give ya, if you happen to be the person being spoken about. Ignore it! Most of the time its coming from someone who claims to be educated, and the fact is they are not! Stop confiding in the person who is talking shit about you. Don't do things with them anymore. Why would you want to? Remember this for future reference, if you meet someone and they are talking bad things about someone else for no good apparent reason other then to just gossip, its only a matter of time when it will be about you they are talking about to someone else. None of us need friends like that. I have enemies nicer then that!
If your the person who is talking shit about others, or if you find yourself giving unwanted advise. My goodness, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT! If you feel the need to be nasty, then like I said, get your battle gear out. Cause as far as I am concerned, maybe you deserve it! Some people learn the hard way, some people DO need to be KNOCKED DOWN A PEG OR TWO. If you think for a minute whoever your telling this shit to, isn't going to say something directly to the person your speaking about, or some how it wont get back to them, you are really freaking STUPID!
I sure as heck see enough of this happening around me, and yep even about me. But I can honestly say, those who have, don't mean a whole lot to me. Cause my REAL FRIENDS wouldn't, and I sure as heck wouldn't either!
As for those who don't think I know about it, think again, I do.
I just .....well....... DO NOT GIVE A SHIT!
LMFAO
My two cents for the day lol.
Define it for me? Why are people two faced? Well its when someone talks about someone else when the person they are talking about is not around. Usually defined in NOT A GOOD WAY. Nope someones talking shit behind someones back! The second part of this definition, after someone has talked smack, you end up seeing them hanging around the person they were just talking smack about... and FUCK ME RUNNING THEY ARE BEING NICE TO THAT PERSON NOW!
You find yourself standing there looking at them both.....your eyes doing the tennis court shuffle back n forth. The person who was talking shit now standing there just smiling back at you... the other greets you and says hello. It can make for an uncomfortable environment to say the least. Especially if you are friends with both of them. So what do you do if your in this situation?
I don't do a Damn thing right away. I evaluate the situation first. Also depends wtf was said to. Was it said out of anger? Was it said just to be mean? Was it said to make their own life look better by making someone elses look like crap! I don't know, a lot of factors come into play doesn't it?
Well what happens when your the person being spoken about? I am sure it has happened somewhere down the line. A friend is sitting there with you, and all of a sudden they mention how someone you know, was cutting you down to them. First initial response, shock isn't it? Especially when you thought this person would never say anything bad about you. Or worse, they haven't been in your life for ten plus years or more to make a comment that even refers to you! Or worse yet you could be married to the person who's talking shit about you! Either way I find its BULLSHIT! Then how do you expect the person who has just heard a bunch of crap , sit there, and NOT start insulting about the person who just did it!
Two wrongs don't make a right? Maybe true, but isn't how it goes is it?
The way I see it, everyone should be accountable for wtf they are saying to other people! If you are the person talking shit about someone, you better get your battle gear out! Nobody in their right mind is going to sit there and take it like a bitch! Or you have just created another TWO FACED person, who isn't the confrontational type to get in your face and tell you what they really think!
Why do people feel the need to be this way anyway? Didn't you ever hear the phrase, "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all!". Sounds to me if you have, then somebody was trying to teach you something. Maybe its time we listen.
The ones that really grind me, are the ones who haven't been in your life for YEARS, who sit there and spout their mouth off, and the truth is, THEIR OWN LIFE SUCKS! In fact I have found the people in this category lead or have lead a pretty sad existence! To ashamed to admit it to anyone! They sit there and tell the world how wonderful their life is and no matter what you do yours will never compares to this blissful life they lead! Don't let that shit fool ya! Its a JOKE! Anyone who claims a life like that is full of it! And honestly if you watch and listen you'll find out its true.
So best advise I can give ya, if you happen to be the person being spoken about. Ignore it! Most of the time its coming from someone who claims to be educated, and the fact is they are not! Stop confiding in the person who is talking shit about you. Don't do things with them anymore. Why would you want to? Remember this for future reference, if you meet someone and they are talking bad things about someone else for no good apparent reason other then to just gossip, its only a matter of time when it will be about you they are talking about to someone else. None of us need friends like that. I have enemies nicer then that!
If your the person who is talking shit about others, or if you find yourself giving unwanted advise. My goodness, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT! If you feel the need to be nasty, then like I said, get your battle gear out. Cause as far as I am concerned, maybe you deserve it! Some people learn the hard way, some people DO need to be KNOCKED DOWN A PEG OR TWO. If you think for a minute whoever your telling this shit to, isn't going to say something directly to the person your speaking about, or some how it wont get back to them, you are really freaking STUPID!
I sure as heck see enough of this happening around me, and yep even about me. But I can honestly say, those who have, don't mean a whole lot to me. Cause my REAL FRIENDS wouldn't, and I sure as heck wouldn't either!
As for those who don't think I know about it, think again, I do.
I just .....well....... DO NOT GIVE A SHIT!
LMFAO
My two cents for the day lol.
